In Telugu brahmin families, a girl’s menarche (first menses) is announced to all near and dear ones by means of a pedda manishi (literally, adult person) function. This involves her sitting on a stage, decked in gold and wearing a saree. Everyone takes turns to admire her and bless her. She is the centre of attention. She is showered with gifts and money. Back in the day, the function’s intended...
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